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Saturday, May 9, 2009

In Memory

My Father's memorial in the grounds of Newcastle Cathedral.
His name was H.R. Gillbert.
(He was so proud of the 'double ell'!)

Our family in earlier days.
Mollee, Mum, Dad and Me.

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IN MEMORY

My father and I were never close
He was a deeply religious man
And I was a frivolous disappointment.
A disappointment that was never hidden.
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We found it difficult to converse at times.
I was my mother's daughter.
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My father died
When I was heavily pregnant and in Africa.
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I sent flowers.
I felt sad.
I knew something momentous had occurred.
But the purchase of a headstone
Never entered my mind.
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Years later, 
On holday in England,
I went to visit his grave
With my cousin.
We could not find it!
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The graveyard was unkempt,
Uncared-for.
My conscience smote me.
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On my return to Australia
I dedicated a stone to his memory
In the Newcastle Cathedral grounds.
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He would have been pleased.
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He would be pleased
With this poem too.
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That poem was heartfelt; this one is tongue-in-cheek: